Announcement BEROEAN PICKETS: A Public Call For Dialogue.

[Lori Jane]

A Personal Invitation to Eric and Wendy 00:49​

"An invitation is going out from this public domain on my YouTube channel to Eric Wilson and his wife Wendy Wans of the Baroan Pickets to attend a private online meeting with former members who have been traumatized by the treatment and behaviors of Eric and Wendy."

• The video presents a public invitation directed at Eric Wilson and his wife, Wendy Wans, to engage in a private online meeting with ex-members who have reportedly suffered due to their actions and treatment.
• The speaker emphasizes a concern for the well-being of individuals affected by the Baroan Pickets Bible study groups, noting that both ex-members and current members are voicing their concerns about Eric and Wendy's behavior.
• This meeting is intended to provide a platform for affected individuals to express their experiences and for Eric and Wendy to listen to those impacted by their actions.

The Urgency of Addressing Concerns 03:35​

"People have stated that they have been very damaged and have suffered in the most hurtful manner."

• The speaker points out that numerous individuals have expressed feelings of trauma and damage from their experiences with Eric and Wendy.
• There’s a strong call to action for Eric and Wendy to acknowledge these issues and take responsibility for their behavior. The speaker believes that the volume of complaints signifies a critical need for intervention.
• The approach taken is rooted in a desire for resolution and healing, emphasizing the importance of addressing these serious concerns.

The Reflection of Past Actions and Call for Accountability 06:12​

"Jesus knew exactly what he was talking about when he stated, 'There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed.'"

• The speaker underscores the idea that a lack of transparency surrounding Eric and Wendy's past actions is unsustainable, suggesting that the truth will eventually emerge regardless of attempts to suppress it.
• By invoking the teachings of Jesus, the speaker argues that addressing issues directly is not only ethically crucial but is also a necessary step toward healing for those harmed.
• Furthermore, the speaker indicates that some issues have persisted for years and have had severe ramifications, including tragic consequences for some individuals involved, which raises the stakes for their accountability.

Describing Harmful Behaviors and Patterns 09:06​

"Some of the words that have been used to describe Eric and Wendy's behavior are spiritual abuse, religious trauma, slander, and bullying."

• The characterization of Eric and Wendy's behavior includes a range of severe accusations, establishing a pattern of conduct perceived as abusive by affected individuals.
• Terms such as "spiritual abuse" and "bullying" signify not just interpersonal difficulties but also a coercive environment in which individuals felt pressured to conform to the group's teachings.
• The speaker shares that their personal experiences serve as a microcosm of the greater systemic issues present within the Baroan Pickets, drawing a parallel to other severe allegations that have surfaced.

The Importance of Personal Study and Accountability 15:39​

"It's a whole lot better than making the easy way out and subcontracting your faith to a new leader."

• The speaker emphasizes the value of personal study in theology and history over relying on external leaders for spiritual understanding.
• This approach, though more time-consuming, fosters deeper discernment and a more meaningful engagement with one's faith.

Invitation to a Private Meeting for Healing 16:30​

"It would actually be in your best interests to attend a private online meeting."

• The speaker proposes a private online meeting for two individuals, Eric and Wendy, to allow them to hear from others and begin the healing process for past damages.
• This meeting aims to create a safe environment for discussion, understanding, and healing, not to place blame or cause division.

Public Awareness and Transparency 18:00​

"The aim of this public invitation for a private meeting is not to name or shame but to create a safe environment for understanding, healing, and accountability."

• The speaker stresses the importance of transparency regarding the private meeting, highlighting that it is necessary to inform the larger community about its occurrence.
• This awareness is crucial as it pertains to potential new members in the Bible study groups who need to be informed of past issues to prevent further complications.

Request for Timely Response and No Contact with Ex-Members 20:00​

"On no account must you try and contact ex-members who will refuse to give you their time."

• The speaker makes a clear request for Eric and Wendy to respond to the invitation to the meeting by a specified deadline.
• There is a strong warning against attempting to reach out to former members, as it would be seen as harassment and could increase tensions rather than facilitate healing and communication.

 

[Petunia]

This is all so sad. People getting hurt all over again.

Unfortunately not only the meek, abused survivors come out of the Borg, but the abusers, insensitive narcissists as well!

I really wonder how someone can create a safe environment?
If you want to be all inclusive, you include the narcissists as well …
if you exclude others, you’ll end up rejecting and hurting innocent people …

The spiritual “dessert” (without religion / religious orientated groups, but with God) isn’t such a bad place to be, it’s in fact a true oasis!

Psalm 119:50, 92-93, 102; Deut. 32:4, 10-12